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Being Sex Negative Could be A Positive Thing

Okay, so for the past couple of weeks I’ve heard some very interesting and new opinions that may have me changing my own mind, at least to try on someone else’s tightly strapped shoes. Continue reading

Sexy Robot Makes Waves at Adult Expo

I heard about Roxxxy the sex robot very recently but completely written off the phemomena as wishful thinking on the parts of perverts everywhere who truly desire AI for sexual gratification. She was introduced by her creator and severe nerd, Douglas Hines as someone who was built to surpass my crude opinion of robot prostitutes. Instead, Roxxxy represents the ultimate companionship, one that is not shrouded exclusively in sex. Continue reading

Eve… World’s Tallest Model

Don’t worry, people. Giantesses do exist and are taking over our world this very second?

Don’t believe me? Why not check out Eve – the world’s tallest model. Continue reading

AFN’s Road to Kink Presents: Sexual Sensory – Voyeurism

This was originally posted at my old website; but you can also check it out here. Also, next week, I will return with next Road to Kink articles!

The body, in various stages of movement and inaction, has been the basis of many Road to Kink topics. This week, we will return to it for our source of sexual inspiration and power. We’re going to take a look, have a smell, indulge in a taste, steal a touch, and listen in on the many, many forms of body worship.

As you can already tell, we’re focusing on the five senses, each of which can illicit fetishistic associations with either the purpose of each sense or the sense itself. Of course, we will talk about the many body parts that are fetishized by all, but, I thought we should at least appreciate the unforeseen power that our senses play on us when we live in our fetish. All of our senses provide rooted connections to us and our fetish-object. And, for some of us, we needn’t look too far for worship. Some of us simply need to take a whiff or listen in… and this is how we connect.

Sensory deprivation is a heightened and intense state of withdrawal of the senses. This is practiced throughout the BDSM community in many different ways. The absence of one sense can heighten the others. Take them all away and you have nothing but your own mind to keep you company, to expand upon the anxieties that may plague you, or to play upon the sheer ecstasy you may feel from being helpless, powerless, and constricted from doing what comes naturally.

Pretend now that I’ve deprived you of all five senses. Which would you want me to return to you first?

Sight is my safest bet. For many fetishists the visual cues that their fetish-object gives them is intensified through the aesthetic. Voyeurism is the arousal gained of spying in on others engaged in intimate acts. Not only do sexual encounters provoke Peeping Toms, but undressing and “upskirting” (looking up skirts with spy cameras) are also highlights.

Spy-cam pornography often helps to insatiate the fetish, popular website like Hidden Zone and Voyeur Porn feature semi-authentic footage of young ladies being caught in dressing rooms, bathrooms, and shower stalls. Strip clubs and peep shows offer the same advantage for voyeur who want to safely satisfy themselves.

Scoptophiles are similar to voyeurs; however, they enjoy the risk and consequential element of danger that comes with uninvitingly spying on others. The subject of gaze is objectified; its appearance is far more significant than its feelings or attitudes.

On the other side of the spectrum, autagonistophilia is a sexual fetish in which the fetishist purposely places his or herself in a situation where an onlooker may accidentally stumble upon the fetishist when s/he is naked. For example, an autagonistophile may leave the curtains open and the bedroom lights on when s/he is getting dressed. S/He is in the right spot where an onlooker could easily spy on them (which is the true intent of this entire occurrence).

Wow, look at the time! Four more senses to go. Which one should we focus on next?

We’ll found out later!

AFN’s Road to Kink Presents: Doll Love – Statue Transformation and Mannequin Adoration

Last week, I discussed the origins of Barbie, an iconic figure born from the deviant dreams of her creator, Jack Ryan. As I skimmed some of the articles that covered his story, I wondered if Jack Ryan became attracted to Barbie herself. She was the spitting image of his ideal woman. She may have been small; but, she was certainly shapely. Quiet. Seductive. Did he ever masturbate to Barbie while she wears her little doll-sized bathing suits?

When I moved into the city, I wanted to learn how to make dolls. I studied the meticulous process of sculpting little parts out of polymer clay (the only material I could afford at the time), baking these little limbs in the oven (or kiln if i could find one), and painting little lips and eyes onto the heads. Tufting the hair. Sewing dolly outfits. Although I was adamant to begin this project, I spent most of my time looking at other dolls. My favorite artist is Marina Bychkova. Not only are her hand-crafted dolls accompanied by beautifully ornate outfits, but their sensual appearance is a sight to behold. They have ball joints for lascivious flexibility, painted anatomy, and lips carved for a luscious, plump look. Even now, when I visited the site, I remained there for about 10 minutes just staring at them all. And becoming secretly aroused.

So, this week, let’s talk more about the intimate lives we share with our inanimate replicas.

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AFN’S Road to Kink Presents: Supernatural Kink

So far we have dreamt of goddesses big and tall, animals with sexy bodies, and sex with Satan. So, of course this day was going to come.

It would take an entire book for me to describe just how excited I get by supernatural fantasies. Sure, I won’t meet any of these monsters in real life. But a gal can dream, can’t she?

For now, let’s celebrate the top 5 sexiest things that go bump in the night!

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AFN’S Road to Kink: Good God! Religious/Demonic Play

This week’s travel through this particular kink was inspired by a book that I discovered at our museum. Satanica Sexualis is a devilishly comprehensive resource that  delineates the taboo relationship we have with demonology, black magic, and the grandmaster of evil himself. Upon reading about one particular Black Mass in which the host has sex with his virgin sacrifice, I had not considered where the origin of the word “fetishism” sprung from, which means religion of the fetish. Its multi-lingual derivations, from Latin to Italian, generally translate to witchcraft. What we explore each week is based on the erotic mysticism that we connect with our fetish-object.

But, we are going to transcend through the spectrum of religious sex and not only explore demonic fantasies, but also how the images of rosary beads and men of the cloth can get some of us-maybe you-very, very horny.

If you’re feeling especially guilty about this particular blog entry, then don’t worry. We’ll have confession later. Continue reading