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Pain is Our Domain

Pain is necessary. It’s programmed into the very fibers of our being. Is it okay to feel pain? That’s not for me to say. I’ve inflicted pain for pleasure and for pay. I’ve wanted to hurt, to feel sore… Because it just feels so good somehow. Like being burned. Masochistic as it may seem, the searing of the flesh for that one nanosecond… it’s like a liquid needle that bores a hole through one’s surface. It swims and swims until it eventually dissolves. Like sperm. Lovely image, yes? When pain is perceived in this fashion, then perhaps we can begin to understand why pain is so essential. And inevitable. Look how easily it can spread to others. And how deeply it touches our soul. And, yet, our bodies are prepared for this. Whatever has gotten us here… it’s like our fate, all of our emotions, all of these sensations are literally programmed in our bodies – chemically induced or catalyzed by pain itself. By recognizing these strengths, then we can see that pain can be manipulated. Pain can be confronted. Continue reading


Being Sex Negative Could be A Positive Thing

Okay, so for the past couple of weeks I’ve heard some very interesting and new opinions that may have me changing my own mind, at least to try on someone else’s tightly strapped shoes. Continue reading

My Interview with Steven Otero of Mondo Eros

Check out this tangential discussion about promiscuity, celebrities, infidelity, and sex work. I actually wasn’t high, surprisingly enough. I did have a cup of wine which always makes me into a loose cannon!

Those of you who know me know one cup’s not enough. But, I was high on the intoxicating topics and Otero’s gravelly voice.


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The Magic (And the Science) of an Orgasm… Pt. I

Finally, an article that can legitimize my orgasmic hallucinations. Continue reading

Defining our Sexuality : Dodson and Ross

The latest podcast released on the D&R website features Betty, Carlin, and yours truly asking important questions. What kind of questions…? Here’s a couple:

“Is it wrong to keep the fetus of a baby for one week only to abort it shortly after?” Find out why the one-week pregnancy works!

“Should a woman really visit a man’s apartment after a night at the bar… if she doesn’t want to have sex?”

“When will mothers admit that when they raise a son, they’re raising a lover?”

We tackle these important questions and more!

Tiger Woods’s Public Apology

A while ago, I wrote a story about Tiger Woods. Usually with gossip-worthy tales such as his, I often write about it once and move on. But, how can I when today, as I’m about to check my mail, I see his big weepy eyes looking at me longingly, with the headlines: “TIGER MAKES A PUBLIC APOLOGY.” Continue reading

Red Light Rights: Integrating a “New” Community.

This piece was written by George Norberg about the panel discussion I shared with Will Rockwell and Sienna Baskin.

Red Light Rights!